Losing love ones is hard.
Losing the people that mean the most to your hurts your soul deep.
Grieving is a process.
Sometimes it is slow, sometimes it is fast. How ever the processes it is at each person’s own pace. Some people are glad to see family members die, other are deeply hurt.
Each person’s loss can not be measured the same. Just because you may feel a sense of peace or relief due to the death of a loved one. Others may feel hurt and lost. The anniversary dates of the death do not make it easy; especially if the death is of someone, you love deeply.
Death is not easy to handle, no matter who or how close the person is to you.
Death is never wanted
Death is never expected
Death is never loved
It hurts and is emotionally painful.
Today my step father has been deceased for one month. I miss him greatly. I never got a chance to say good-bye. My heart hurts deeply because I can no longer share with him the many happy times to come. I know he is with me in spirit, but I can no longer hug his neck or comb his “Brillo” salt and pepper hair.
I love you Dad.
Copyright©2009Mimi Lateefah Palmer-White
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